#1 – The Key is Confidence!
Being a tall guy means that sometimes the world demands a lot of leaning or slouching from you. However, don’t let bad posture become a habit. Confidence is attractive in all shapes and sizes and body language usually speaks louder than you do. Don’t worry about standing straight and tall, even if it makes you the tallest one in the room. You may be the quiet type, but you can still exude confidence with your tall frame and a genuine smile.
#2 – Keep in Mind Your Stride (and other Tall Factors)
If you are dating someone short than you, try to keep in mind you will likely walk much faster than them because of your stride. Try to show some consideration (even if you are running late) and make sure they can keep up with you. The same goes for kissing or holding hands. A big height difference can make affection a little awkward. Try to think of ways of making this more comfortable for your shorter date, like sitting down so she doesn’t get a kink in her neck.
#3 – Be Careful of Ruling People Out
You may be a tall guy who assumes the only person for you is someone else who is tall. However, good relationships are not just based on height (or hair color, body type and so forth.) If there is someone you really click with and they don’t exactly match your idea of perfection, remember no one is perfect. You could miss out on an amazing relationship for very shallow reasons. Don’t be that guy.
#4 – If They Aren’t Interested, Move On
Some people may turn you down for shallow reasons like being too tall, too nerdy, too sporty, the list goes on. While everyone has their own preference, don’t let someone’s choice on the matter get you down. There are plenty of women out there who dream of having a towering guy by their side, or someone who will go to Comic-Con with them, or someone who will shoot hoops with them. One woman’s opinion says more about them than it says about you.